Read next
mastering the quiet courage to listen
A man who is mistrustful and self-centered finds it difficult to truly listen. His mind is filled with his own fears, judgments, and emotions. When someone—perhaps a woman close to him—tries to share her feelings, he does not really hear her. Instead, he listens through the filter of
finding connection by accepting loneliness
We spend much of our lives running from loneliness, crafting elaborate strategies to outsmart its persistent presence. We chase romantic ideals, believing that somewhere exists a perfect partner who will dissolve our solitude completely. We imagine that the right relationship will fill every hollow space, that another person can become
the hidden ways we sabotage love
Relationships require effort, care, and commitment. We enter partnerships with the best intentions, working to weather storms and prioritize our bond. Yet despite our genuine efforts, we often find ourselves trapped in destructive cycles that leave both partners wounded.
The cruel irony is that our attempts to preserve relationships can