the inner drive: understanding your sexual essence

Relationships require effort, care, and commitment. We enter partnerships with the best intentions, working to weather storms and prioritize our bond. Yet despite our genuine efforts, we often find ourselves trapped in destructive cycles that leave both partners wounded. The cruel irony is that our attempts to preserve relationships can

We are haunted by our failures. The wrong words spoken in anger, the opportunity we let slip away, the choice that hurt someone we love—these moments replay endlessly in our minds. We dissect them, analyze them, torment ourselves with endless "what ifs" and "if onlys."

How do you know if the work you’re doing is the right fit for you? Journalist Farai Chideya offers a practical framework to answer this question — one that goes beyond titles, salaries, or external expectations. She believes that true career satisfaction starts with being honest about what you’re