how to expand your thinking: employing the wisdom of distant guides

how to expand your thinking: employing the wisdom of distant guides
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The ancient Stoics understood a profound truth: we become who we admire. Marcus Aurelius filled his Meditations with reflections on the virtues of those who came before him, drawing strength from their examples when facing the pressures of empire. This practice mirrors what modern wisdom calls "flexi mentors"—inspiring figures who expand our thinking precisely when emotions threaten to narrow it (a concept introduced by Poppie Jamie).